Hi!
I'm just beginning this process and I have been reading up as much as I can, but I'm still so confused about many things and could really use some help and advice. My fiance lives in Australia and I visited him for the first time in person in Australia from May 10-June 19th. He is coming here on the VWP next Monday and will be staying for close to three months (July 1-September 21). I want to file for the K-1 while he is here, so that if it takes 5 months as I've seen in most places, we can at least be together for the first three months and will only have to be apart for, hopefully, two months. I have several questions though regarding the process, including what will happen when he enters the country this time around. (It was SO much easier going to Australia! Got my visitor visa in five minutes online, which is good for a year, and was asked no questions at all upon entry.)
1- What will happen when he gets here? What kinds of questions will he be asked? He is concerned because he really isn't sure what to expect, and neither am I. I've never been questioned upon entering any other countries (and I've visited many countries) so this is all very new and strange to me.
2- Will it take 5 months? Is there any hope of it being shorter? Would it be possible for him to come back on the VWP after, say, a month after going home so we can be together? I know he would then have to go back to Sydney for the interview, so we could just book him the return flight straight away and then change the flight to an earlier date if he can be scheduled for the interview. Would this be suspicious? It wouldn't be illegal, as his intent WOULD be to visit me whilst waiting for the visa approval.
3- I'm confused about the service center thing, and extra confused about the official processing dates search. (The only center that even lists K1 is Vermont, and the processing time says October 26th, 2012 or something to that nature.......huh?) Why don't the other service centers list K-1? And it seems that, from what I'm reading, Vermont is the slowest. Can I choose to send it to a faster one, even though I live on the east coast? I really don't want to send it there and have it take an excessive amount of time because it's a slower center.
4- I'm concerned about the affadavit of support. I am a 21 year old college student and I still live at home with my mom, and my fiance has only just turned 20. He works in Australia and plans on getting a degree in America once he gets citizenship. He currently lives with his mom. I'm not working currently as I am in school. When he comes here, he would be living with me and my mom and will be quickly getting a job, and his mother will be sending him $100/week until we are stable, which is more than enough to live on if you aren't paying rent or utilities. So we definitely will be fine as we will be living with my mom, but she isn't going to want to sign any paperwork or give her banking/work information for this. I'm already asking her to do so much by him moving in for a few years until we get on our feet, I can't ask her to do any more. Will this be an issue? There's no way in the world I'd ever apply for government support as it's something I don't personally believe in. I don't believe people should be getting support from the government, they should support themselves or their family should support them. It's not fair for that money to be taken out of the paychecks of hard workers.... anyway that's just my rant. I would NEVER do that but I wouldn't know how to prove that to the government. Not to mention, his mom would never let him live poorly, if he needed money she'd give it to him, she makes more than enough. Can she sign anything saying she will be sending him money? Would that count?
5- What is the total cost of the K-1 visa? And then, how much does the Adjustment of Status cost? All I keep seeing is "pay the required fees" but I haven't seen an actual NUMBER for the total cost.
6- Do I HAVE to change my name after we are married for proof for an adjustment of status? I haven't officially decided if I want to change my name ... I am close with my family and I love my Russian heritage and Russian last name. I may ultimately decide to change it but I only want to do that if I want to on my terms, not be forced to.
.... I *think* those are all of the questions I have at the moment, but I may end up having more later on! .... This whole process is frustrating, and I wish we had the freedom to just be together and function like a normal couple rather than having to wait to be together and jump through so many hoops to get there. Couples from the same country have it so easy, I'm jealous!
Thank you all in advance for your help!! I'm so glad I found this website to help me through this insane process.